Child Protection Reflections

Some reflections on child protection . . .

The requirement that children be protected from abuse, neglect and interpersonal trauma is conceptually simple and beyond reproach.

Child protection in practice is not-so-simple.

Child protection in practice requires the community to be informed about the ill-effects of child maltreatment on the development and psychological wellbeing of maltreated children. Child protection in practice requires the community to stand against the abuse and neglect of children.

Strong and effective child protection in practice requires a statutory workforce that is well-trained and well-supported. Child protection workers require the knowledge and the tools to properly assess and address matters referred to them on an individual, case-by-case basis. There should be no universal adherence to dogma, such as “family preservation”, “permanency planning” or “solution-based-casework”. These all detract from individualised, informed and thoughtful decision-making.

Strong and effective child protection in practice requires a strong and informed leadership that supports their professional workforce, to the benefit of children who require protection and assistance with recovery from trauma.

Strong and effective child protection in practice requires well-trained and well-supported foster parents. Foster parents are vital to all endeavours to protect children.

Strong and effective child protection in practice requires a professional workforce that is appropriately trained and equipped with strategies to help children recover from abuse and neglect.

Strong and effective child protection in practice requires that we care more about the future of our community than our own contemporary self-interest and strive assiduously for a more sensitive and caring society for our children and grandchildren.

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Dear Teacher

Dear Teacher.

I do not know what words to use to express my thoughts and feelings so I asked my psychologist to help me with this letter.

I feel unsafe at school.

People bother me.

Especially when they are doing their own thing.

Especially when doing their own thing involves me!

I like to do my own thing.

If people won’t join me in my own thing I need them to be away from me.

I want to hide or leave the classroom or playground.

I imagine a safer place.

You will be able to tell when I am imagining my safer place as you will think I am daydreaming.

You may tell me off.

Other kids may laugh and make fun of me.

You are all mean.

You don’t care.

You don’t understand.

You can’t be trusted.

You are just like those that hurt me.

You need to be punished.

I will punish them that hurt me by taking their food.

Ha, ha, sucked in.

Having their food makes me feel safe again.

I don’t want to be bad.

I just want to feel safe.

So now you know about me.

If you show that you understand what I wrote in this letter I might try to understand you.

Yours sincerely,

A child survivor of interpersonal trauma.

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I am a Sensitive Child

I am a Sensitive Child – part observation, part self-reflection, lessons learnt!

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I am a sensitive child.

There are many children like me.

We find this world a challenging place to live in.

We get tired. We get upset. We feel overwhelmed.

What you think is a little thing is a big problem for us.

Noise often bothers us. Our clothing too. Even the food we are expected to eat.

We are particularly sensitive of the feelings of others.

We can see in your face, in your eyes, that we bother you.

We sometimes doubt whether people care about us, understand us, love us.

We try hard to keep our feelings under control, but we find this very difficult when we are with the people who we expect to love us, understand us, accept us.

In this world where we so often feel overwhelmed and out-of-control we crave order.

We often insist upon this, such as when we demand that our parents…

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I am a Sensitive Child

I am a sensitive child.

There are many children like me.

We find this world a challenging place to live in.

We get tired. We get upset. We feel overwhelmed.

What you think is a little thing is a big problem for us.

Noise often bothers us. Our clothing too. Even the food we are expected to eat.

We are particularly sensitive of the feelings of others.

We can see in your face, in your eyes, that we bother you.

We sometimes doubt whether people care about us, understand us, love us.

We try hard to keep our feelings under control, but we find this very difficult when we are with the people who we expect to love us, understand us, accept us.

In this world where we so often feel overwhelmed and out-of-control we crave order.

We often insist upon this, such as when we demand that our parents follow the usual route to kindy or school.

We like repetition, preferring the same foods day by day.

We are not autistic; though many will say we are.

We need your patience, your flexibility, your understanding, your unconditional love.

We need you to be there for us, to connect with us and to support us.

With enough of these experiences, we assure you we will grow into sensible, mature and caring young adults.

And would not the world benefit from more adults like us?

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Limited Online Release of Triple-A Handbook

Available NOW!! Don’t miss out.

Limited Online Release of Triple-A Handbook.

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Limited Online Release of Triple-A Handbook

Dear Friends and Followers. I am conducting a limited online release of the handbook for the Triple A Model of Therapeutic Care. The handbook offers practical strategies for the therapeutic care of children that have experienced abuse, neglect and family trauma, and self-care strategies for their carers. The limited online release will occur on 3/3/15 and be open for 48 hours. The cost of the handbook is $16:50 (AUD). For more information please follow the link. Please also consider sharing this information with people who might benefit from access to the handbook in your network. Thanks in anticipation. Colby

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Limited Online Release of Triple-A Handbook.

I am conducting a limited online release of the handbook for the Triple A Model of Therapeutic Care. The handbook offers practical strategies for the therapeutic care of children that have experienced abuse, neglect and family trauma, and self-care strategies for their carers. The limited online release will occur on 3/3/15 and be open for 48 hours. The cost of the handbook is $16:50 (AUD). For more information please follow the link. Please also consider sharing this information with people who might benefit from access to the handbook in your network. Thanks in anticipation. Colby

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Limited Online Release of Triple-A Handbook

Limited Online Release of Triple-A Handbook.

I am conducting a limited online release of the handbook for the Triple A Model of Therapeutic Care. The handbook offers practical strategies for the therapeutic care of children that have experienced abuse, neglect and family trauma, and self-care strategies for their carers. The limited online release will occur on 3/3/15 and be open for 48 hours. The cost of the handbook is $16:50 (AUD). For more information please follow the link. Please also consider sharing this information with people who might benefit from access to the handbook in your network. Thanks in anticipation. Colby

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Newsflash re Triple-A

Newsflash re Triple-A.

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Social ties, a sense of belonging, interpersonal acceptance & mental health

Social ties, a sense of belonging, interpersonal acceptance & mental health.

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Foster and Kinship Carers

A brief article about vicarious trauma (aka secondary traumatisation or compassion fatigue) on the Secure Start site: Foster and Kinship Carers.

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